Fatherless until the end
Dec 31, 2016 1:40:02 GMT -5
Post by sparks on Dec 31, 2016 1:40:02 GMT -5
I will try to make this as short as possible
At about 5 years old I started to notice my father is so different from his siblings since then I have been asking questions about my father origin.
As I grow so as the rumours. I started to hear people saying my grandfather is not my father's biological father, I was convinced after hearing these whispers my father biological father is not my grandfather.
One day I got the courage to ask my grandmother the big question. I was about 11 or so. I came to her in the kitchen she was grinding freshly roasted cocoa beans. I picked one cocoa bean she slapped my hand I took one anyway, I sat next to her and my mouth just spill my frustrations without measure. I asked " who is my dad real father" my grandma was angry with me and said, how dare you ask such such a stupid question?
I said, grandma everyone is talking about this and I really want to know, I am not blind I can tell grandma, she told me off and kicked me out of the kitchen, I never asked again until about 3 years ago I asked my aunt who is my father step sister from my grandfather ( we shall touch into this down the road).My aunty did not know my father biological father is not her father. Such answers really get to my head It makes me wonder if people are either stupid,blind or just in denial I mean come on I am not a little kid i have kids of my own and I need to know. Anyway, that was a dead end so I turned to my mother who made me dizzy with nothing but a whole lot of hearsay
I asked my mother to go and ask the relatives of my supposedly grandfather. She rang me to tell me the family did not want to talk about it, they said "Their relative my supposedly grandfather is my father real father and that is that. The relatives went on to say, who ever we are looking for did not spent a cent on my father, the typical island stubborn spirit.
Anyway, my father biological father was a Chinese migrant labourer, the closest to true information I have is: my father biological father was living in Magiagi he and my grandmother met there when my grandmother was living with her uncle in magiagi
My grandmother family took my grandmother back to Elise where they had relatives that is where my grandma married a man from the kiripati or solomon. the story goes my grandma family removed my grandma because they did not her to continue with the Chinese man they forced her to marry this other man.
My grandma was already pregnant with my father, she gave birth to my father while married to the solomon or kiripati man they grow my father as her new husband son, but the difference was undeniable.
We all know what a solomon or a kiripati man looks like> My father was about 1.8 meters tall his height is from my grandmother (who has a German side) he was extremely fair with wavy soft hair, his eyes look more Asian you can not miss his paternal origins.
my mother did mention a chinese name she thinks it is my father real last name, I forgot what it is but I will find out and post it.
Now I want to know if anyone know of any chinese in magiagi.
I would also like to know if anyone here is from papalii savaii this is where my grandmother is from it might help with my search.
Now I need to find a forum for the Germans to find my German roots as both my parents have German roots.
If the oldies just share their secrets we wouldn't have to suffer typing all these threads
Thank you in advance
At about 5 years old I started to notice my father is so different from his siblings since then I have been asking questions about my father origin.
As I grow so as the rumours. I started to hear people saying my grandfather is not my father's biological father, I was convinced after hearing these whispers my father biological father is not my grandfather.
One day I got the courage to ask my grandmother the big question. I was about 11 or so. I came to her in the kitchen she was grinding freshly roasted cocoa beans. I picked one cocoa bean she slapped my hand I took one anyway, I sat next to her and my mouth just spill my frustrations without measure. I asked " who is my dad real father" my grandma was angry with me and said, how dare you ask such such a stupid question?
I said, grandma everyone is talking about this and I really want to know, I am not blind I can tell grandma, she told me off and kicked me out of the kitchen, I never asked again until about 3 years ago I asked my aunt who is my father step sister from my grandfather ( we shall touch into this down the road).My aunty did not know my father biological father is not her father. Such answers really get to my head It makes me wonder if people are either stupid,blind or just in denial I mean come on I am not a little kid i have kids of my own and I need to know. Anyway, that was a dead end so I turned to my mother who made me dizzy with nothing but a whole lot of hearsay
I asked my mother to go and ask the relatives of my supposedly grandfather. She rang me to tell me the family did not want to talk about it, they said "Their relative my supposedly grandfather is my father real father and that is that. The relatives went on to say, who ever we are looking for did not spent a cent on my father, the typical island stubborn spirit.
Anyway, my father biological father was a Chinese migrant labourer, the closest to true information I have is: my father biological father was living in Magiagi he and my grandmother met there when my grandmother was living with her uncle in magiagi
My grandmother family took my grandmother back to Elise where they had relatives that is where my grandma married a man from the kiripati or solomon. the story goes my grandma family removed my grandma because they did not her to continue with the Chinese man they forced her to marry this other man.
My grandma was already pregnant with my father, she gave birth to my father while married to the solomon or kiripati man they grow my father as her new husband son, but the difference was undeniable.
We all know what a solomon or a kiripati man looks like> My father was about 1.8 meters tall his height is from my grandmother (who has a German side) he was extremely fair with wavy soft hair, his eyes look more Asian you can not miss his paternal origins.
my mother did mention a chinese name she thinks it is my father real last name, I forgot what it is but I will find out and post it.
Now I want to know if anyone know of any chinese in magiagi.
I would also like to know if anyone here is from papalii savaii this is where my grandmother is from it might help with my search.
Now I need to find a forum for the Germans to find my German roots as both my parents have German roots.
If the oldies just share their secrets we wouldn't have to suffer typing all these threads
Thank you in advance