Solo journay to rural China (Part I)
Aug 1, 2005 1:37:06 GMT -5
Post by Woodson on Aug 1, 2005 1:37:06 GMT -5
We thank Raymond Seid for permitting us to post his article from the Seid family forum. It is long but interesting.
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SOLO JOURNEY TO RURAL CHINA - July 2004
By Raymond Seid
NOTE: Be forewarned that the following travelogue is deliberately lengthy and quite detailed. The intent is to present my travel experience in China in such detail that would enable the reader to learn something about Chinese culture and what it was like for me to travel alone to rural China. Timely travel tips are noted throughout the travelogue for those who may wish to take a journey to rural China in the near future.
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This is my 4th trip to China, and my first trip to travel solo here. I invited several friends and family members to come along, but there were no takers. I am Chinese, born in America. I was apprehensive at first due largely to my limit language skills in Chinese, but it was a trip I felt I had to make, even to do so on my own. Some of my friends and family have forewarned me about villagers asking for money or favors, but I would encounter no such thing. Speaking some local-dialect Cantonese, unable to read nor write Chinese, I embarked upon a trip to rural China.
Essentials for the trip included medicine such as prescription antibiotics, Bayer aspirins, Excedrin pain pills, diarrhea pills, and Rolaids for upset stomachs, as well as medication for treating mosquito bites, disinfectants, and an insect repellent. Also, it is important to bring a roll of toilet tissues just in case Iin an unexpected situation where I have to use a public toilet, especially in the village. Public toilets are not equipped with toilet paper in many places in rural China. Of course, light summer clothing is recommended. An English/Chinese dictionary is also helpful.
It is also a comfort that Imet several friends and relatives on my last trip to rural China 3 years ago, and have contacted them beforehand to inform them of my itinerary and to make some advance preparations. This alleviated much of the anxiety and initial reservation about traveling alone to China. As for money, I brought cash and credit cards. Cash seems to be the preferred method of payment in rural China, and this meant safeguarding my valuables during my travels was even that much more critical. In fact, I did not even use my credit cards at all, nor did I use the ATM.
I found the internet to be quite useful in planning my itinerary. When I discovered that there was a bus that would take me from Hong Kong airport to Xinhui City (also spelled and pronounced Wuiin local dialect) in China, I seized the opportunity to do so in spite of the 9-hour wait at the airport for the next available bus. This would save me the expense of staying at a hotel in Kowloon overnight in order to catch the one ferry service to Xinhui City the very next morning at 8:45 am. Via the internet, an email, and a phone call, I found out that the only bus servicing the airport to Xinhui City was through China Travel Service (CTS) - - a 7:30 am departure. My flight from Honolulu via Narita airport (Tokyo) arrived in Hong Kong airport at 10:30 pm the night before - - thus the 9-hour wait. Obtaining an arrival card (and departure card) visa for entry into Hong Kong was a breeze. Very few flights came into the airport after midnight. I busied myself taking a light 2-hour nap and reading a book. I also spent about an hour upstairs on a computer checking my email. Use of the computer is free, but I had to buy something from the coffee shop in order to use it. Ilimited to 15 minutes of usage if someone is waiting, but at this hour passed midnight no one was waiting.
Thanks to information gleaned from CTS and a Hong Kong-based travel agent (Beautiful Locations, LTD), the CTS bus counter at the airport is located just as theyindicated - - Arrival Hall, Exit A, Counter #A04. The counter closes at 9:00 pm, and opens at 7:00 am. Itnow the morning of July 16, 2004, Friday. The counter is now opened. I was one of the first in line to purchase my bus ticket to Xinhui City. The cost: HK $280. Iexchanged US $100 upon my arrival at the airport earlier. CTS could even procure a Mainland China visa for you on the same day if needed, but I had already gotten my US $60 visa when I purchased my airline ticket from my travel agent in San FranciscoChinatown, Starlite Travel Service. CTS personnel put a sticker on me indicating that my destination was Xinhui City, and tagged all my baggage likewise. Soon CTS marched a small group of us, along with our luggage bags, downstairs to the waiting bus.
The bus ride was air-conditioned and 4-5 hours in duration. The driver handed out an immigration entry form for Mainland China and a health declaration card to be filled out. At the Mainland China border crossing at Huanggang, I surrendered my Hong Kong departure card to Immigration Department Hong Kong on one side, walked to the other side, and re-boarded the bus that was already awaiting us. The bus had only driven us a few yards away, before we were instructed to take all our luggage from the bus and go through Mainland China immigration for permission to enter. That was done smoothly without a hitch. Once done with that, I carried my 2 luggage bags and one backpack to where I found my bus waiting again. Here it was literally like a Chinese fire drill indeed - - there were at least 15-20 buses parked here at any one time from a variety of bus and tour companies. The stalls were not numbered, and all the signs and writings on the buses were in Chinese. Throngs of passengers were everywhere exiting Mainland China immigration and waiting and scurrying around looking for their respective buses.
My bus driver was taking his smoke break inside a nearby coffee shop. I could not take a break since I had to guard my luggage next to the bus. After about 30 minutes and no sign that my bus was leaving, I got concerned. I flagged down a CTS employee (they were easily identified with their uniforms and name badge), and she informed me that I was supposed to change to another bus that will go to Xinhui City. She instructed me to just wait where I was standing. (I did not know I was supposed to change bus.) 15 more minutes passed, and she was no longer in sight. At that point I could see that my bus driver was done with his smoke break, so I flagged him down to ask him in Chinese where is the bus that was supposed to take me to Xinhui City. He instructed me to wait while he finds out what bus I should be on. A few minutes later he returned and escorted me to the correct bus to Xinhui City. Had I hesitated for a few more minutes I would have missed this bus because it took off very soon after I boarded, and I believe there was only one CTS bus daily that goes to Xinhui City but I was not certain of that.
After placing my 2 luggage bags in the storage bin compartment beneath the bus, I proceeded to board the bus. I asked the driver in Chinese to make sure he informed me when we have reached Xinhui City. With his acknowledgement, I proceeded to a seat in the back. A middle-aged lady sitting next to me is yakking away loudly and picking her feet at the same time. These are things I had to get used to fast. Locals talking loudly almost to the point of shouting and not considered rude, and people picking or playing with their bare feet in full public view without a second thought. The bus went through the major cities of Zhongshan (also spelled and pronounced Sahnin local dialect) and Jiangmen (pronounced Muenin local dialect). Zhongshan, originally named was quite massive in size, sprawling with all its more recent industrialization and developments. We passed large developments after large developments, factories after factories. It took us over an hour to go through Zhongshan proper. Jiangmen was also highly developed but to a much lesser extent. Notable in Jiangmen was the dozens upon dozens of giant storefronts and manufacturers of industrial and commercial lightings of all sorts on display.
The bus made several stops to drop off passengers on the way, and one stop for a toilet break. One thing I noticed right away was whenever departing passengers reclaimed their luggage bags from the bus bin below, several passengers onboard would carefully watch them to make sure that their luggage bags were not removed from the bin. I supposed some passengers had lost their luggage bags in this manner in the past. Taking a cue from them, I too started to peer out the window at each stop to ensure that my bags were not removed from the storage bin.
At 12:30 pm my bus arrived in front of the Overseas Chinese Building where I had reservations for a room for 2 nights at their hotel. In local dialect the hotel is called Que Dai HaThe only other stop the bus makes in Xinhui City is at the Gang Zhou Hotel (aka Xinhui Cui Heng Cun Hotel and pronounced Joe Bun Guenin local dialect) where the only McDonaldin town is located. The Overseas Chinese Building is where many returning Chinese to the area stay during their visits. Xinhui City is the major city serving the Xinhui District or County area. It is one of the 4 districts or counties in this region collectively known as Siyi (or Yupin local dialect) literally meaning Districtsor CountiesThe other three are Taishan (also spelled Kaiping (also spelled and Enping (also spelled
The family of the wife to my oldest brother lives in Xinhui City. Having been informed of my scheduled arrival ahead of time, her mother and younger sister greeted me warmly as I disembarked the bus. I had met the mother on my last trip 3 years earlier. The sister helped me check into the hotel. I paid for the room with a 500 RMB currency deposit since the clerk strangely did not appear to understand what a credit card was. (I had pre-arranged for the sister to exchange US $100 for me upon my arrival.) The double-bed room was air-conditioned, and costs 160 RMB per night, or roughly US $20. The room was reasonably comfortable with a Western-style toilet (not the squat type) and a shower-tub, but the hotel had no elevators nor does it have seats in the lobby. My hotel room also does not have a safe, which would have been a big plus for securing my valuables. I supposed I could have left my valuables downstairs with the front desk, but I chose to keep my valuables locked in my baggage instead. There is a Kentucky Fried Chicken located downstairs in the same building, and it is the most crowded KFC I have ever been in, packed with people at nearly all hours of the day! KFC is comfortably air-conditioned, very clean with good service and tasty food, and there is a play room for the kids. Everything is written in Chinese. This is a marquee Western standard food establishment, and the residents here seem to take a liking to it despite the comparatively higher cost of eating here.
After helping to bring my luggage bags into my room, the sister introduced me to a local hole-in-the-wall eatery where she treated me to a good size bowl of porridge (aka for lunch for a mere 3 RMB which is about US $0.35. (Her mother had already walked home which was nearby, about a 10-minute walk.) Afterwards she went home, and I went to my room for a quick 1-hour nap. Then I walked around a bit to familiarize myself to the area. I noted that the banks in town have ATM machines leading me to believe that I could actually use my ATM cards to obtain cash here, but I did not try and do not know for certain.
The family had insisted that I have dinner at their apartment home, so right at 5:00 pm the sister stopped by to escort me to their home. Their apartment was very basic, one floor up in an older building and fan-cooled. There I met the father again, being that I had met him 3 years earlier, and I met the older sister for the very first time. This was the first real test of my Chinese-speaking and listening ability. These folks are a humble, country-folk type of a family, very hospitable and friendly. My oldest brother and his family live in Mississippi, and these are his in-laws. Dinner was excellent with a soup, 2 meat dishes, and a vegetable dish - - almost like meals Mama used to make when I was a kid in Mississippi. We had hot tea right after dinner. At the request of my oldest brother, I gave them a photo album of his family which they thoroughly enjoyed having. My oldest brother has 3 young sons. Then I shared with them a packet of various photos I had brought with me. Photos are always an excellent conversation piece and a good icebreaker. Surprisingly, I was able to communicate reasonably well, but I had to consult my English-Chinese pocket dictionary to get my point across on a few occasions. My oldest brother and his wife called from Mississippi while I was there, so I had a chance to tell them that I arrived in Xinhui City safe and sound. By 9:00 pm I was pretty tired and left to turn in for the evening at my hotel.
The next is July 17th, Saturday. I woke up early and had breakfast at the same hole-in-the-wall eatery a block away - - 2 bowls of jook this time. Afterwards I walked around on my own and took a few photographs of street sceneries. Then I relaxed and had coffee at KFC. The sister met up with me around lunch time to show me the sights around town. We had lunch at the same eatery - - I had 2 bowls of wonton noodles for around US $0.60 a bowl. Iasked her to help me locate an internet cafso that I could check my email. After lunch we set off to locate an internet cafUpon consulting with a computer store, we located one upstairs in the public library. I was on the computer for about 45 minutes, and the cost was a mere 5 RMB or so, which was about US $0.65.
Afterwards we hopped a local bus to a place known as Jade Lake, apparently the most popular tourist attraction in the area. It is a huge nature park with a large lake filled with carp fish as its main feature. It was rainy that day, so we only walked around for about an hour or so before I returned to my hotel. I rested some in my room, while she returned home. I had offered to treat the family out for dinner that night, but again, they insisted that I have dinner at their home. I had a late afternoon Pepsi at KFC. The sister met me there around 6:00 pm to escort me to their home for dinner, again. The dinner was similar to the first one, and again was very homey and tasty. The family wanted me to deliver some jewelry and some Chinese CDs to my oldest brotherwife. Of course, I was glad to accept these for delivery. Before saying my goodbyes, I exchanged another US $100 for RMB currency with the father just to be sure I had enough money for my upcoming trip to tiny Gujing Town (pronounced in the local dialect) in rural China the next day. The sister was to meet me right at 11:30 am at the hotel the next day to make sure I had safe and proper transportation to Gujing Town. I turned in early that evening again.
It is now Sunday, July 18th. I woke up early to pack for my trip to Gujing Town. Early on I had attempted to make arrangement for an English-speaking friend Imet 3 years ago from the Gujing Town area to escort me to Gujing Town via public bus, but the plans were not confirmed and thus I was uncertain if the friend would be meeting me at my hotel. I intended on waiting for her at the hotel until as late as 1:00 pm before leaving on my own. For one final time, I had a bowl of jook for breakfast at the same eatery. By this time the owners were accustomed to my eating there and were making small talk with me. Somehow they knew I was from America. Afterwards, I grab a Pepsi at KFC before going to my room to bring down my luggage bags. The sister and her mother show up around 11:30 am and together with the help of the hotel floor warden, we carried everything downstairs.
I checked out, and waited for my Gujing Town friend to show up. The sister waited with me in the lobby while the mother went home. By 1:00 pm, I decided that my friend was a no-show, and proceeded to find transportation with the assistance of the sister. I had debated whether to take the public bus to Guijing Town which would have been only about US $0.50, but decided to take a taxi due to the amount of luggage bags I had. Itold that by taxi, it is only 30-40 minutes ride. So, we flagged a taxi driver wetalked to earlier the previous day, and agreed to a 70 RMB fare, about US $9. The sister was overly cautious and a bit hesitant about my taking this taxi because there have been instances where some taxi drivers from Northern China were robbing unsuspecting tourist passengers. However, I was comfortable with this taxi because the young driver spoke our local dialect and was from Xinhui City.
So, after saying goodbye to the sister, off I went enroute to Guijing Town. We crossed a newly-built bridge, and as we neared Gujing Town, we passed the large hill where my paternal great grandfather is buried near my paternal ancestral village called Sahin local dialect. Then we passed the village of Wanwhere the surname is prevalent, the village of Liewwhere the surname is prominent, and then the village of Lauwhere the surname is prominent. These are the villages that are visible from the road. Things were starting to look familiar now since I had last come here 3 years ago. At 2:30 pm, 40 minutes after leaving Xinhui City, I was at the front door of my hotel. I liked the driver and got his phone number just in case I needed a driver for the future. I gave him 10 RMB extra just for being nice.
The name of this hotel in local Chinese dialect is Que Lin Dai HaItanother one of those hotels where many returning Chinese Americans from overseas stay while visiting the area. The hotel only has about 15 rooms. I had stayed at this same hotel 3 years ago. The hotel clerk immediately said that she had been waiting for my arrival. I had the English-speaking friendfamily make the reservation for me for the next 10 nights. She showed me a room, very basic for 100 RMB per night, about US $12.50. It had a Western-style toilet, not the squat typeis a big plus! Then she gave me an option to upgrade to a much better room which had been recently remodeled all around with a brand new refrigerator that the other room did not have, and that was on the 2nd floor and was going for 120 RMB per night, about US $15. The room had 3 twin beds, all with hard mattresses. It too had a Western-style toilet. Well, the right choice was clear to me - - for an extra US $2.50, Ibe getting the best room in the hotel that is reasonably more comfortable and clean. I opted for the best room in spite of the open shower setup which shares the same floor level as the toilet (as a result, the toilet seat gets wet whenever the shower is in use). The clerk immediately went out to buy me some sodas for the refrigerator, for which I paid her back. Then she brought me a brand new hand towel and some English-language magazines. Shegiving me the VIP treatment. And to top it off, she offered to find a female companion for me during my stay, which I sort of chuckled at and left the subject at that.
This is the very same room that my Dad stayed in when we were here 3 years ago. She informed me that a Chinese American, married to a Caucasian lady, comes to Gujing Town every year and stay for about a month in this room. He has contributed a lot of money towards the building of this hotel. Theyjust checked out right before I arrived - - perfect timing. He had contributed money to remodel this room. They live somewhere in the South, like Tennessee or Mississippi, Itold. The manname is Man FookA large plaque adorning the doorway to the room attests to his generosity.
Please see part II
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SOLO JOURNEY TO RURAL CHINA - July 2004
By Raymond Seid
NOTE: Be forewarned that the following travelogue is deliberately lengthy and quite detailed. The intent is to present my travel experience in China in such detail that would enable the reader to learn something about Chinese culture and what it was like for me to travel alone to rural China. Timely travel tips are noted throughout the travelogue for those who may wish to take a journey to rural China in the near future.
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This is my 4th trip to China, and my first trip to travel solo here. I invited several friends and family members to come along, but there were no takers. I am Chinese, born in America. I was apprehensive at first due largely to my limit language skills in Chinese, but it was a trip I felt I had to make, even to do so on my own. Some of my friends and family have forewarned me about villagers asking for money or favors, but I would encounter no such thing. Speaking some local-dialect Cantonese, unable to read nor write Chinese, I embarked upon a trip to rural China.
Essentials for the trip included medicine such as prescription antibiotics, Bayer aspirins, Excedrin pain pills, diarrhea pills, and Rolaids for upset stomachs, as well as medication for treating mosquito bites, disinfectants, and an insect repellent. Also, it is important to bring a roll of toilet tissues just in case Iin an unexpected situation where I have to use a public toilet, especially in the village. Public toilets are not equipped with toilet paper in many places in rural China. Of course, light summer clothing is recommended. An English/Chinese dictionary is also helpful.
It is also a comfort that Imet several friends and relatives on my last trip to rural China 3 years ago, and have contacted them beforehand to inform them of my itinerary and to make some advance preparations. This alleviated much of the anxiety and initial reservation about traveling alone to China. As for money, I brought cash and credit cards. Cash seems to be the preferred method of payment in rural China, and this meant safeguarding my valuables during my travels was even that much more critical. In fact, I did not even use my credit cards at all, nor did I use the ATM.
I found the internet to be quite useful in planning my itinerary. When I discovered that there was a bus that would take me from Hong Kong airport to Xinhui City (also spelled and pronounced Wuiin local dialect) in China, I seized the opportunity to do so in spite of the 9-hour wait at the airport for the next available bus. This would save me the expense of staying at a hotel in Kowloon overnight in order to catch the one ferry service to Xinhui City the very next morning at 8:45 am. Via the internet, an email, and a phone call, I found out that the only bus servicing the airport to Xinhui City was through China Travel Service (CTS) - - a 7:30 am departure. My flight from Honolulu via Narita airport (Tokyo) arrived in Hong Kong airport at 10:30 pm the night before - - thus the 9-hour wait. Obtaining an arrival card (and departure card) visa for entry into Hong Kong was a breeze. Very few flights came into the airport after midnight. I busied myself taking a light 2-hour nap and reading a book. I also spent about an hour upstairs on a computer checking my email. Use of the computer is free, but I had to buy something from the coffee shop in order to use it. Ilimited to 15 minutes of usage if someone is waiting, but at this hour passed midnight no one was waiting.
Thanks to information gleaned from CTS and a Hong Kong-based travel agent (Beautiful Locations, LTD), the CTS bus counter at the airport is located just as theyindicated - - Arrival Hall, Exit A, Counter #A04. The counter closes at 9:00 pm, and opens at 7:00 am. Itnow the morning of July 16, 2004, Friday. The counter is now opened. I was one of the first in line to purchase my bus ticket to Xinhui City. The cost: HK $280. Iexchanged US $100 upon my arrival at the airport earlier. CTS could even procure a Mainland China visa for you on the same day if needed, but I had already gotten my US $60 visa when I purchased my airline ticket from my travel agent in San FranciscoChinatown, Starlite Travel Service. CTS personnel put a sticker on me indicating that my destination was Xinhui City, and tagged all my baggage likewise. Soon CTS marched a small group of us, along with our luggage bags, downstairs to the waiting bus.
The bus ride was air-conditioned and 4-5 hours in duration. The driver handed out an immigration entry form for Mainland China and a health declaration card to be filled out. At the Mainland China border crossing at Huanggang, I surrendered my Hong Kong departure card to Immigration Department Hong Kong on one side, walked to the other side, and re-boarded the bus that was already awaiting us. The bus had only driven us a few yards away, before we were instructed to take all our luggage from the bus and go through Mainland China immigration for permission to enter. That was done smoothly without a hitch. Once done with that, I carried my 2 luggage bags and one backpack to where I found my bus waiting again. Here it was literally like a Chinese fire drill indeed - - there were at least 15-20 buses parked here at any one time from a variety of bus and tour companies. The stalls were not numbered, and all the signs and writings on the buses were in Chinese. Throngs of passengers were everywhere exiting Mainland China immigration and waiting and scurrying around looking for their respective buses.
My bus driver was taking his smoke break inside a nearby coffee shop. I could not take a break since I had to guard my luggage next to the bus. After about 30 minutes and no sign that my bus was leaving, I got concerned. I flagged down a CTS employee (they were easily identified with their uniforms and name badge), and she informed me that I was supposed to change to another bus that will go to Xinhui City. She instructed me to just wait where I was standing. (I did not know I was supposed to change bus.) 15 more minutes passed, and she was no longer in sight. At that point I could see that my bus driver was done with his smoke break, so I flagged him down to ask him in Chinese where is the bus that was supposed to take me to Xinhui City. He instructed me to wait while he finds out what bus I should be on. A few minutes later he returned and escorted me to the correct bus to Xinhui City. Had I hesitated for a few more minutes I would have missed this bus because it took off very soon after I boarded, and I believe there was only one CTS bus daily that goes to Xinhui City but I was not certain of that.
After placing my 2 luggage bags in the storage bin compartment beneath the bus, I proceeded to board the bus. I asked the driver in Chinese to make sure he informed me when we have reached Xinhui City. With his acknowledgement, I proceeded to a seat in the back. A middle-aged lady sitting next to me is yakking away loudly and picking her feet at the same time. These are things I had to get used to fast. Locals talking loudly almost to the point of shouting and not considered rude, and people picking or playing with their bare feet in full public view without a second thought. The bus went through the major cities of Zhongshan (also spelled and pronounced Sahnin local dialect) and Jiangmen (pronounced Muenin local dialect). Zhongshan, originally named was quite massive in size, sprawling with all its more recent industrialization and developments. We passed large developments after large developments, factories after factories. It took us over an hour to go through Zhongshan proper. Jiangmen was also highly developed but to a much lesser extent. Notable in Jiangmen was the dozens upon dozens of giant storefronts and manufacturers of industrial and commercial lightings of all sorts on display.
The bus made several stops to drop off passengers on the way, and one stop for a toilet break. One thing I noticed right away was whenever departing passengers reclaimed their luggage bags from the bus bin below, several passengers onboard would carefully watch them to make sure that their luggage bags were not removed from the bin. I supposed some passengers had lost their luggage bags in this manner in the past. Taking a cue from them, I too started to peer out the window at each stop to ensure that my bags were not removed from the storage bin.
At 12:30 pm my bus arrived in front of the Overseas Chinese Building where I had reservations for a room for 2 nights at their hotel. In local dialect the hotel is called Que Dai HaThe only other stop the bus makes in Xinhui City is at the Gang Zhou Hotel (aka Xinhui Cui Heng Cun Hotel and pronounced Joe Bun Guenin local dialect) where the only McDonaldin town is located. The Overseas Chinese Building is where many returning Chinese to the area stay during their visits. Xinhui City is the major city serving the Xinhui District or County area. It is one of the 4 districts or counties in this region collectively known as Siyi (or Yupin local dialect) literally meaning Districtsor CountiesThe other three are Taishan (also spelled Kaiping (also spelled and Enping (also spelled
The family of the wife to my oldest brother lives in Xinhui City. Having been informed of my scheduled arrival ahead of time, her mother and younger sister greeted me warmly as I disembarked the bus. I had met the mother on my last trip 3 years earlier. The sister helped me check into the hotel. I paid for the room with a 500 RMB currency deposit since the clerk strangely did not appear to understand what a credit card was. (I had pre-arranged for the sister to exchange US $100 for me upon my arrival.) The double-bed room was air-conditioned, and costs 160 RMB per night, or roughly US $20. The room was reasonably comfortable with a Western-style toilet (not the squat type) and a shower-tub, but the hotel had no elevators nor does it have seats in the lobby. My hotel room also does not have a safe, which would have been a big plus for securing my valuables. I supposed I could have left my valuables downstairs with the front desk, but I chose to keep my valuables locked in my baggage instead. There is a Kentucky Fried Chicken located downstairs in the same building, and it is the most crowded KFC I have ever been in, packed with people at nearly all hours of the day! KFC is comfortably air-conditioned, very clean with good service and tasty food, and there is a play room for the kids. Everything is written in Chinese. This is a marquee Western standard food establishment, and the residents here seem to take a liking to it despite the comparatively higher cost of eating here.
After helping to bring my luggage bags into my room, the sister introduced me to a local hole-in-the-wall eatery where she treated me to a good size bowl of porridge (aka for lunch for a mere 3 RMB which is about US $0.35. (Her mother had already walked home which was nearby, about a 10-minute walk.) Afterwards she went home, and I went to my room for a quick 1-hour nap. Then I walked around a bit to familiarize myself to the area. I noted that the banks in town have ATM machines leading me to believe that I could actually use my ATM cards to obtain cash here, but I did not try and do not know for certain.
The family had insisted that I have dinner at their apartment home, so right at 5:00 pm the sister stopped by to escort me to their home. Their apartment was very basic, one floor up in an older building and fan-cooled. There I met the father again, being that I had met him 3 years earlier, and I met the older sister for the very first time. This was the first real test of my Chinese-speaking and listening ability. These folks are a humble, country-folk type of a family, very hospitable and friendly. My oldest brother and his family live in Mississippi, and these are his in-laws. Dinner was excellent with a soup, 2 meat dishes, and a vegetable dish - - almost like meals Mama used to make when I was a kid in Mississippi. We had hot tea right after dinner. At the request of my oldest brother, I gave them a photo album of his family which they thoroughly enjoyed having. My oldest brother has 3 young sons. Then I shared with them a packet of various photos I had brought with me. Photos are always an excellent conversation piece and a good icebreaker. Surprisingly, I was able to communicate reasonably well, but I had to consult my English-Chinese pocket dictionary to get my point across on a few occasions. My oldest brother and his wife called from Mississippi while I was there, so I had a chance to tell them that I arrived in Xinhui City safe and sound. By 9:00 pm I was pretty tired and left to turn in for the evening at my hotel.
The next is July 17th, Saturday. I woke up early and had breakfast at the same hole-in-the-wall eatery a block away - - 2 bowls of jook this time. Afterwards I walked around on my own and took a few photographs of street sceneries. Then I relaxed and had coffee at KFC. The sister met up with me around lunch time to show me the sights around town. We had lunch at the same eatery - - I had 2 bowls of wonton noodles for around US $0.60 a bowl. Iasked her to help me locate an internet cafso that I could check my email. After lunch we set off to locate an internet cafUpon consulting with a computer store, we located one upstairs in the public library. I was on the computer for about 45 minutes, and the cost was a mere 5 RMB or so, which was about US $0.65.
Afterwards we hopped a local bus to a place known as Jade Lake, apparently the most popular tourist attraction in the area. It is a huge nature park with a large lake filled with carp fish as its main feature. It was rainy that day, so we only walked around for about an hour or so before I returned to my hotel. I rested some in my room, while she returned home. I had offered to treat the family out for dinner that night, but again, they insisted that I have dinner at their home. I had a late afternoon Pepsi at KFC. The sister met me there around 6:00 pm to escort me to their home for dinner, again. The dinner was similar to the first one, and again was very homey and tasty. The family wanted me to deliver some jewelry and some Chinese CDs to my oldest brotherwife. Of course, I was glad to accept these for delivery. Before saying my goodbyes, I exchanged another US $100 for RMB currency with the father just to be sure I had enough money for my upcoming trip to tiny Gujing Town (pronounced in the local dialect) in rural China the next day. The sister was to meet me right at 11:30 am at the hotel the next day to make sure I had safe and proper transportation to Gujing Town. I turned in early that evening again.
It is now Sunday, July 18th. I woke up early to pack for my trip to Gujing Town. Early on I had attempted to make arrangement for an English-speaking friend Imet 3 years ago from the Gujing Town area to escort me to Gujing Town via public bus, but the plans were not confirmed and thus I was uncertain if the friend would be meeting me at my hotel. I intended on waiting for her at the hotel until as late as 1:00 pm before leaving on my own. For one final time, I had a bowl of jook for breakfast at the same eatery. By this time the owners were accustomed to my eating there and were making small talk with me. Somehow they knew I was from America. Afterwards, I grab a Pepsi at KFC before going to my room to bring down my luggage bags. The sister and her mother show up around 11:30 am and together with the help of the hotel floor warden, we carried everything downstairs.
I checked out, and waited for my Gujing Town friend to show up. The sister waited with me in the lobby while the mother went home. By 1:00 pm, I decided that my friend was a no-show, and proceeded to find transportation with the assistance of the sister. I had debated whether to take the public bus to Guijing Town which would have been only about US $0.50, but decided to take a taxi due to the amount of luggage bags I had. Itold that by taxi, it is only 30-40 minutes ride. So, we flagged a taxi driver wetalked to earlier the previous day, and agreed to a 70 RMB fare, about US $9. The sister was overly cautious and a bit hesitant about my taking this taxi because there have been instances where some taxi drivers from Northern China were robbing unsuspecting tourist passengers. However, I was comfortable with this taxi because the young driver spoke our local dialect and was from Xinhui City.
So, after saying goodbye to the sister, off I went enroute to Guijing Town. We crossed a newly-built bridge, and as we neared Gujing Town, we passed the large hill where my paternal great grandfather is buried near my paternal ancestral village called Sahin local dialect. Then we passed the village of Wanwhere the surname is prevalent, the village of Liewwhere the surname is prominent, and then the village of Lauwhere the surname is prominent. These are the villages that are visible from the road. Things were starting to look familiar now since I had last come here 3 years ago. At 2:30 pm, 40 minutes after leaving Xinhui City, I was at the front door of my hotel. I liked the driver and got his phone number just in case I needed a driver for the future. I gave him 10 RMB extra just for being nice.
The name of this hotel in local Chinese dialect is Que Lin Dai HaItanother one of those hotels where many returning Chinese Americans from overseas stay while visiting the area. The hotel only has about 15 rooms. I had stayed at this same hotel 3 years ago. The hotel clerk immediately said that she had been waiting for my arrival. I had the English-speaking friendfamily make the reservation for me for the next 10 nights. She showed me a room, very basic for 100 RMB per night, about US $12.50. It had a Western-style toilet, not the squat typeis a big plus! Then she gave me an option to upgrade to a much better room which had been recently remodeled all around with a brand new refrigerator that the other room did not have, and that was on the 2nd floor and was going for 120 RMB per night, about US $15. The room had 3 twin beds, all with hard mattresses. It too had a Western-style toilet. Well, the right choice was clear to me - - for an extra US $2.50, Ibe getting the best room in the hotel that is reasonably more comfortable and clean. I opted for the best room in spite of the open shower setup which shares the same floor level as the toilet (as a result, the toilet seat gets wet whenever the shower is in use). The clerk immediately went out to buy me some sodas for the refrigerator, for which I paid her back. Then she brought me a brand new hand towel and some English-language magazines. Shegiving me the VIP treatment. And to top it off, she offered to find a female companion for me during my stay, which I sort of chuckled at and left the subject at that.
This is the very same room that my Dad stayed in when we were here 3 years ago. She informed me that a Chinese American, married to a Caucasian lady, comes to Gujing Town every year and stay for about a month in this room. He has contributed a lot of money towards the building of this hotel. Theyjust checked out right before I arrived - - perfect timing. He had contributed money to remodel this room. They live somewhere in the South, like Tennessee or Mississippi, Itold. The manname is Man FookA large plaque adorning the doorway to the room attests to his generosity.
Please see part II